SAfe With Stephie

 If the protocols aren't working, it's not because you or your dog aren't trying hard enough. 
Something deeper is being missed.

Are you tired of protocols that don't seem to work?
 
Do you feel like something deeper is being missed?

Are you ready to understand what's really going on for your dog or your clients' dogs?

The SAfe Pathway looks at the whole picture through the Readiness Web™, body comfort, emotional safety, environment, and daily life, not just the moment the door closes. When the web is strong, everything else follows.

"I really enjoy the course!  So glad to have found people with this wonderful vision of help, made of respect, patience and love.  It's full of hope and possibilities!"  Katia

"Woop woop!

Well, folks, I have just DRIVEN to my local shop to drop off a parcel. The dogs have had a nice, calm day and we all seemed in a good place...  

Anyway, this clip is 5mins into what was an 8min absence - longer than we've ever done using this approach (his longest ever with the old training was 14mins back in 2024).

Watch him 22 seconds in - what happens next is just, WOW.  In all our previous SA practice he has never once lain on his side. I came back to them all nice and calm.

Errand run. Happy dogs and happy mum"  

Claire

What kind of help do you need?

For Caregivers and Professionals Living and Working with Separation Anxiety

Support that looks beyond the leaving itself, the SAfe Pathway focuses on readiness across daily life, helping you understand what’s underneath the struggle with being alone and what will actually make a difference.

For caregivers and professionals ready to take a whole-dog approach.

For Caregivers and Professionals Looking For Support With Sensitive Dogs

The club is for professionals and caregivers who live or work with dogs who feel the world a little more deeply.

 Inside the club, you’ll find practical ways to ease pressure, understand your dog’s patterns, and build calmer, more workable days, with guidance, resources, and a supportive community alongside you.

I just wanted to touch base and say a sincere "thank you".

 I haven't been able to participate in any of the live seminars as I had intended due to you know, life getting a bit life-y, but I've been following along and working at my own in the background and also implementing what I've been learning into the work I currently do with sep anx clients and I've found it REALLY useful.  

Free work has been life changing for so many of my clients and having the web analogy has really helped me frame out what is needed to leave a dog alone.  

So thank you so much for offering this course and for making it so flexible! It's been truly invaluable for my own work and I've learned so, so much through it!"

Liz

"I cannot thank Stephie enough for the SAfe Pro program! I

t came at a time when I was pulling my hair out over my Zoey's separation anxiety. For three years I tried all the "trainer-prescribed cures" to no avail. They not only didn't help; but in subtle ways, I think some did more harm than good...

This course has really opened my eyes to so many layers of my dogs' behaviors. And opened my mind to the fact that their daily lives really are webs of intricate data waiting to be observed and pondered...

I can see the proverbial light at the end of the tunnel now, whereas six months ago there was only darkness."

Sue

As someone living or working with a dog who struggles with separation anxiety, you've probably already tried the protocols. You've done the careful setups, the gradual exposure, the timed absences. And still, something isn't shifting.

I'm Stephie, and that's exactly the space I work in.

I help caregivers and professionals who've tried everything and are ready to look deeper. Because in my experience, when progress stalls, it's rarely about technique. It's about what's sitting underneath that nobody has looked at yet.

My work is built around the SAfe Pathway and the Readiness Web™, a framework that looks at the whole dog: their body, their nervous system, their environment, their daily life, and the relationship itself. When those strands are strong, dogs don't just cope with being alone. They genuinely settle.

My approach is trauma-informed and deeply rooted in ACE, Animal Centred Education. I was incredibly lucky to learn directly with the late Sarah Fisher, whose influence shapes everything I do. I don't focus on fixing behaviour. I focus on understanding what's underneath it.

I'm calm, warm, and non-judgemental. I listen carefully, break things down into manageable pieces, and pay close attention to the small details that often get missed but tell us exactly what a dog needs.

Whether you're a professional looking for a more nuanced framework, a dedicated caregiver who wants to truly understand your dog, or someone who's simply exhausted from trying, you're in the right place.

    

"I don't think of Stephie as a dog trainer. I think of her as a relationship fixer,  a teacher, the world's best body language reader, bar none" Eileen and Emmet

What changes when you work this way

  • Understanding what's really going on for your dog
    We start by looking at the whole picture through the Readiness Web™, body comfort, emotional regulation, environment, social experience, and daily life. Because behaviour is only ever the surface. What sits underneath tells us so much more.
  • Moving from fixing to facilitating
    This isn't about training harder or finding a better protocol. It's about creating the conditions where calm can actually happen, and then trusting the dog to find it themselves. When we stop trying to force progress and start supporting readiness, everything shifts.
  • Supporting the nervous system first
    A dog who isn't comfortable in their body, or whose nervous system is already stretched, can't engage with learning. We address what's underneath before we ever think about departures, and that changes everything.
  • Building real, lasting safety
    Not coping. Not white-knuckling through an absence. Genuine safety. The kind where a dog rolls onto their side five minutes into being alone, because their whole body has decided that this is OK.
  • You don't have to figure this out alone
    Whether you're supporting your own dog or the dogs and people you work with professionally, you'll have guidance, community, and a clear way forward alongside you every step of the way.

"Stephie emanates calm! She is empathetic, patient and incredibly knowledgeable." Bea

TESTIMONIALS

Eileen and Emmett

I don't think of Stephie as a dog trainer. I think of her as a relationship fixer, a behavior interpreter, a teacher, the world's best body language reader, bar none, especially since she's doing all these things over zoom, you tube videos and through the client's eyes She is an advocate for both dog and person. My 6 year old dobie and I were in her shouty, barky dog class. She is available for questions, and gives you the time to clarify the info and let it sink in, so you can adjust it for a better fit to your dog. She wants to see you both succeed, to the point that she had to teach me about zooming and you tube. Her dog Mickle is very lucky to have her and thank you Mickle for sharing her. She will do all in her power to help you with your dog, and all the effort will be well worth it. I recommend her highly.

Catherine and Daisy

Amazing, Daisy has come a long way in the short period we have undergone training. Daisy was a street dog from Bosnia, thanks to Stephie she was housetrained within a day , Daisy was reactive with other dogs and people; very over friendly and howling when they got near, which scared other dogs and people. She is now a very pleasant and happy dog when people and dogs approach. All this through positive cognitive training. No punishments or harsh words all positive and rewarding for Daisy and us. I would definitely recommend Stephie . Thank you so much

Katie and Finn

Me and Finn my gorgeous cocker spaniel have been working with stephie over the last 7 weeks to correct Finns separation anxiety. Stephie is wonderful and so knowledgeable- as soon as I spoke to her I felt immediately at ease. Stephie gives us very practical things to do each week and the training sessions are fun and focussed. Finn has made big changes so far and I can see him growing in confidence daily. Stephie takes a holistic approach and looks at all aspects of the dogs life and wellbeing, her approaches are kind and practical. We are really enjoying the process and stephie is always on hand to answer questions, I’ve had a lot of them!

Ken, Jane and Bly

We initially booked one of the free sessions Stephie runs to give us an idea of what is covered on the full course This is our first very reactive dog. Stephie was great on the initial session giving good insight on why dogs react & tips on how to help deal with their reactivity. This is a 10 week course & you will need to put the effort in to get best results. I like that there are weekly catch-ups with others in the group & the groups are small. It's nice having other people who understand what you're going through with a reactive dog. Although this is a 10 week course you can work at your own pace & set your own goals. You can go back to sections & keep going over the training material. We have noticed a big difference with our dog Bly over the 10 weeks. He's more relaxed when walking & I now have tools that help me notice his stress levels before he explodes. We've changed the way we feed & exercise him. Stephie makes the training sessions fun & interesting It helps having decent broadband for the weekly zoom sessions uploading videos.

Fiona

Thanks to Stephanie's advice our training has come on well and we don't have barking in the house or out in public spaces, and the treat game worked so well even with a high drive dog.

Claire and Eara

Stephie explained things really well and apparently had the patience of a saint! Eara, my reactive lurcher, and I learned loads and were given a really good start in our training adventure. Would absolutely recommend Stephie, Eara has come on loads 😀

Eve and Roo

Would definitely recommend, was always at the end of the phone when needed. Gives excellent advice and has given us amazing advice about crate training; our frug puppy has made so much progress. Thank you for all the reassurance, advice and answering every question we had.

Vicky, Stuart and Oscar

Stephie's unique training did exactly what she advertises - a calmer canine.  Oscar is a rescue dog and came with some unwanted behaviours.  By following Stephie's training, we were able to help Oscar slow down his thought process, which in turn helped to slow his reaction down in each situation.  He is now able to think, process and then decide what he's going to do next.  He generally makes good choices but of course, he's not perfect and training continues.  However, we are seeing small wins on a weekly basis and we will continue to continue with the training Stephie provided.  A huge thank you from all of us.

Janet and Yogie

Thank you for your support during your course. Although Team Yogie is still very much a work in progress, I do feel that we have come on a lot. Yogie is a rescue dog of indeterminate age ( probably 9+) so we are very much late starters. You have given us some ideas that have worked particularly well with Yogie as traditional games and exercises don't hold much interest for him. I was delighted when a passer by commented today on how much he has improved! Thanks again Stephie.

Sarah and Ralph

We’ve now had 5 sessions with Steph and it’s absolutely amazing. We have a much calmer, more obedient dog. The training she has done with us has given us a much more confident caring dog. Could not recommend her enough. Thank you so much.  Her training methods are so good and easy to follow for us and our two children so the whole family is able to get involved working towards our goals for a more obedient calmer dog.

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